Dimitie Kendall Intuitive Life Coach

Happy Mother’s Day!

May 11, 2013 11:36 pm ⋅ 2 Comments ⋅

Here’s a poem I wrote many years ago to my mum:

Life with its trials
And tribulations,
Has been cushioned
By your gentle touch.

The love you have provided
Me with,
Has formed the basis
Of my very character

Your wisdom too,
Has helped me to make
Rational decisions

So thank you,
For being my mum.

I love you very much and am
So happy.
As I know no matter
How far apart we are,
We will always be close.

Happy Mother’s Day Mum!

And to all those mums out there, just know you are doing a good job!!

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Posted in: Happiness, Love, Parenting, Unconditional Love ⋅ Tagged: , , , ,

Enjoy Your Life!

April 23, 2013 2:02 am ⋅ 4 Comments ⋅

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I went to see Abraham Hicks in Melbourne, Australia, which was absolutely fantastic! I learnt so much from being there listening to Abraham in person and gained so much wisdom from the knowledge that was imparted there. I may even start a separate blog, just to write about all of Abe’s teachings! But the message is always simple and clear with Abraham. Enjoy Your Life! When you begin to enjoy your life and all it has to offer, focusing on the good and ignoring the bad, good things start to happen. They really do! But as human beings I think we have a propensity to focus on the negative first. So it requires a lot of mind training to focus on the positive. But when you do, amazing things start to happen. So if you are lamenting about all the troubles in your life, STOP! Start focusing on all the good things in your life and continue to focus on them until more good starts to happen. It really does work! The more you practice something, the better you become at it and that’s the same for focusing on the good things. You have to work at it!

I’ve been watching the Abraham Hicks DVD’s since then and here are a few things that they suggest that are really helpful to do each day:

  1. Meditate for 15 mins a day (this can be as simple of focusing on your breathing for that amount of time.If your mind wanders off your breathing, that’s ok, just bring it back to your breath)
  2. Acknowledge the beauty of nature all around you, the sky, the warm sun, the trees, the plants, the earth etc.
  3. Get a journal and start writing in it. Call it “The Book of Positive Aspects” and write about all the positive things that are happening in your life.

So what are all the good things that have been happening in your life? Please comment below. I would love to hear all the good things that have been going on.

If you think this post has been useful. Please share with your friends.

Here’s to making the world a better place!

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Posted in: Appreciation, Beauty, Best Life, Feel Good, Happiness, Law of Attraction, Positive thinking, Solutions ⋅ Tagged: , , , , , , ,

The Journey IS the Destination!

March 19, 2013 5:20 am ⋅ 4 Comments ⋅

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I heard this on one of the Abraham Hicks videos. Finally I realise how true this statement really is!

As human beings we always seem to be looking into the future for what we want, what we haven’t got or looking into the past to what we wanted but haven’t achieved/received. This is what keeps us stuck in perpetual unhappiness. We think ‘if I only I had this or that in my life, things would be better’. But I’m realizing that’s not the way to enjoy your life. It’s focusing on being in the present moment! That is what makes for a happy life.

But it’s not always easy to focus on being present. In fact I think it’s one of the hardest things to do consistently, at every moment throughout the day. How many times have you said to yourself, “ok now I am going to focus on the present moment”. So you become aware of what’s going on around you, someone speaking to you, the person walking past you with a worried look in their face, deep in thought, the child holding their parents hand as they cross the street to the playground, the workman knocking off work after a full day on a building site. I don’t know about you, but for me when I try to focus intently on the present moment, within minutes/seconds of doing this, I have drifted off into deep thought land again!

I also think when you focus on being in the present moment a feeling of ease and peace happens within you. I think in that moment you have total acceptance of what it is you are really seeing or witnessing. Your mind stops chatting to you about all the things you should or shouldn’t be doing.  There is a stillness, calmness and time seems to stand still. I also think that is when expansion of yourself happens. It’s where you really connect with and become One with the Source within. Source witnessing and experiencing life through your eyes.

That is when I believe you realize that your Journey is the Destination. The Destination being the experiencing of the Present Moment.

What do you think? I would love to hear your views. After all, it’s the wonderful contrast in our lives that makes for such diverse and interesting views. Having contrast in our views and lives is what helps with the evolution of  the human race.

 

Posted in: Awake or Awakening?, Awareness, Happiness, Learnings, Observations, Present Moment ⋅ Tagged: , , , ,

WordPress a Great Tool for Reflection and Observation

March 8, 2013 5:17 am ⋅ 6 Comments ⋅

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When I look over the dates of my previous blogs, I notice that I am writing about once a month. I always feel like I am neglecting WordPress, when Twitter, Facebook, Pinterest etc are so instantaneous. But what I find interesting is that every-time I write a post on WordPress I feel so much better! It is a wonderful tool for reviewing what has been happening in my life, to monitor where I am at and where I am going. So here’s a reflection of what’s been happening over the past month, particularly to do with the Law of Attraction.

Ever since I started working on the Law of Attraction and learning to focus on what I do want, everything that I don’t want is coming to the surface!

I have certainly learnt a lot over the past few weeks about mind control. With Law of Attraction you need to ignore all the negative things happening and focus on the positive. It teaches you to become aware of the problems you are facing, but not give any energy or emotion to them. It doesn’t mean you can ignore the problem, because when issues come up you have to deal with them, but it is about training your mind to be neutral about the situation. Positive feelings are ok, like appreciating a tough situation for showing you what you need to learn, but applying negative emotion will keep you stuck in the problem. Also it will keep coming up until you learn to focus on it in a positive way.

I also think humor is a good way to distract you from the negative. I have been watching lots of funny videos to make me laugh and enjoy myself.

Happy learnings everyone!

Posted in: Awareness, Law of Attraction, Learnings, Observations, Resilience, Stress, thoughts ⋅ Tagged: , , , , , ,

Healing Garden

February 7, 2013 2:03 am ⋅ 4 Comments ⋅

I was waking through the Singapore Botanic Gardens and came across this new garden they have created. The Healing Garden has plants from all over Asia and other parts of the world that have been used to treat ailments in all parts of the body. They have even created an App, ‘The Healing Garden’, so you can learn more about the plants and their medicinal properties. Really good!

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Posted in: Appreciation, Beauty, Feel Good, Happiness, Healing, Life, Positive Lives ⋅ Tagged: , , , ,

Marie Forleo

February 4, 2013 5:36 am ⋅ 2 Comments ⋅

I love this woman! She is fantastic and I would highly recommend checking out her website. She mainly focuses on women and business and how to create as she says “a business and life you love”.

She is incredibly wise and fun!

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http://www.marieforleo.com

http://www.youtube.com/user/marieforleo

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Focus on the Beauty-New Year’s Resolution

December 30, 2012 7:59 pm ⋅ 2 Comments ⋅

I woke up this morning feeling sad and depressed. Not really a good way to be going into a New Year. I realize that I keep focusing on all the things that are not going right in my life. This is just a tad frustrating!! I know it keeps me stuck where I am, with the same old issues showing up.

So I asked the Universe to show me why I keep having these ‘Groundhog Day’ moments. The answer I got was so simple, but so profound.

‘Focus on the Beauty in your Life’ . Ahhhh that makes perfect sense!

So that is exactly what I am going to do to start this New Wonderful Year of 2013!

I am going to start dedicating this blog to all the beauty in my life :-) Whenever I see, experience, hear, feel something that is beautiful, I’m going to post it here.

Here’s the first bit of beauty from 2012, that will carry me into 2013.

Happy New Year Everyone! May it be Beautiful for You Too :-) .

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Posted in: Appreciation, Awareness, Beauty, Best Life, Happiness, Happy New Year, Law of Attraction, Life, Love, Manifesting, Positive thinking, The Universe ⋅ Tagged: , , , , , , , ,

I am so blessed!

December 28, 2012 2:35 am ⋅ 6 Comments ⋅

I’ve just downloaded WordPress for my iPhone so i can blog more often! just love technology.

Holidaying with my family on the Gold Coast Australia

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Posted in: Appreciation, Best Life, family, Happiness, Happy heart, Happy Holidays, Life, Love, My Life ⋅ Tagged: , , ,

Merry Christmas!

December 25, 2012 10:12 am ⋅ 4 Comments ⋅

Wishing Everyone a Merry Christmas and a New Year full of all your dreams come true!

It’s been such a busy month with my new project “Give”! More on that later as I have to go spend a wonderful Christmas Day with my family.

Lots of love to you all! Xx

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Posted in: Awake or Awakening?, Best Life, Christmas, family, Happiness, Love ⋅ Tagged: , , , ,

Appreciation vs Gratitude

November 20, 2012 10:58 am ⋅ 4 Comments ⋅

The penny finally dropped this week when I realized that once you start to Appreciate what you already have in your life, more good starts to flow into your existence!!

I’ve also learned from the Law of Attraction that Gratitude is different from Appreciation. I thought they were one and the same. But according to Abraham they are different.

Apparently Gratitude implies you have overcome a difficult situation. Seeing things from this perspective means that you are still focusing on the problem and not the solution.

Appreciation, however, is being happy with where you are at, regardless of the situation. It’s about seeing all of your experiences as a blessing, both the good and the bad.

Apparently once you Master this, then you are seeing through the eyes of Source or Unconditional Love.

So I have had to correct myself all week to stop from saying “I am Grateful for …..”, to “I Appreciate…..”. I must say it makes a huge difference to your psyche. It’s almost like a relief to focus on life this way. I have also felt a lot happier putting this into practice.

Here are some things I have been appreciating:

My brilliant, beautiful, kind and loving family,

My house,

The food we eat,

My car,

The blue sky and warm weather (we live in the tropics)

The amazing flowers I have seen when I walk the dogs

Our dogs

The kind, helpful people I have encountered this week

You wonderful people who read my Blog, Tweets, Facebook and Link-in posts!

WordPress, Google, You Tube, Facebook, Twitter, Linked-In!

My Apple iPhone, iPad and iMac!

So that’s what I have experienced. Let me know if you try out  ’being Appreciative vs being Grateful. I’d be interested to know what you experience too!

Love Dimitie xx

P.S. I’m now also going to be dedicating this blog and all my other social media avenues to ‘Appreciation of this Amazing Life’ and see what happens ;-)

 

Posted in: Appreciation, Awake or Awakening?, Awareness, Best Life, Law of Attraction ⋅ Tagged: , , , ,
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